Those rumours you’ve been hearing about girlvirus being transphobic? Those rumours are true. The reasons you’re having trouble finding evidence is because a) it sucks to have to repeat our negative experiences over & over again, especially when folks seem not to really care, not to wanna support us, anyway, b) a lot of discussions that have taken place over the internet have been deleted, c) a lot of discussions have taken place in person and via snail mail and maybe you weren’t there, and d) we are not obligated to “prove” to you that our allegations are true. I’ll tell you right now, there is nothing to be gained by falsely accusing a group of being transphobic, and losing friends over this has been kind of shitty for some of us. It’s not a pleasant situation.
Click on the link to read Maranda’s very wonderful and thoughtful post on girlvirus and why you probably shouldn’t get involved with that bullshit.
[Many believe love is putting up with, sacrificing, tolerating, or suffering in silence thinking their commitment is proof of their love. This is not love. Understanding, seeing, hearing, and accepting someone for who they are is love.]
Folks, I give you, the 2012 Republican Presidential Candidates:
Michelle Bachmann:"Don’t misunderstand. I am not here bashing people who are homosexuals, who are lesbians, who are bisexual, who are transgender. We need to have profound compassion for people who are dealing with the very real issue of sexual dysfunction in their life and sexual identity disorders.” (2004)
Ron Paul:"The rate of AIDS infection is on the increase again. From the gay point of view, the reasons seem quite sensible. First, these men don't really see a reason to live past their fifties. They are not married, they have no children, and their lives are centered on new sexual partners... because sex is the center of their lives, they want it to be as pleasurable as possible, which means unprotected sex. Third, they enjoy the attention & pity that comes with being sick." (1995 in a newsletter)
Rick Perry:"I'm not ashamed to admit that I'm a Christian, but you don't need to be in the pew every Sunday to know there's something wrong in this country when gays can serve openly in the military but our kids can't openly celebrate Christmas or pray in school. " (2011 in a campaign ad)
Mitt Romney:"I should tell my story. I'm also unemployed." (2011 while speaking to unemployed people in Florida. Romney's net worth is over $200 million.)
Newt Gingrich:"She's not young enough or pretty enough to be the wife of the President. And besides, she has cancer." (1994, about his first wife)
Rick Santorum:"Is anyone saying same-sex couples can’t love each other? I love my children. I love my friends, my brother. Heck, I even love my mother-in-law. Should we call these relationships marriage, too?" (2008)
Michelle Bachmann:"Carbon dioxide is portrayed as harmful. But there isn't even one study that can be produced that shows that carbon dioxide is a harmful gas." (2009 during a debate)
Mitt Romney:"PETA is not happy that my dog likes fresh air." (2006, when questioned about driving 12 hours with his dog in a cage strapped to the top of his car)
“You have to save yourself from so many good-intentioned people,
do-gooders, who are constantly advising you to be this, to be that.
Listen to them, thank them.
They don´t mean any harm — but harm is what happens.
You just listen to your own heart. That is your only teacher.
In the real journey of life, your own intuition is your only teacher.”—Osho (via terramantra)
“Don’t bend; don’t water it down; don’t try to make it logical; don’t edit your own soul according to the fashion. Rather, follow your most intense obsession mercilessly.”—Franz Kafka (via terramantra)